Have you ever gotten up in a really good mood only to go
to work and be brought down by someone with a negative outlook? I mean, you
smile and cheerfully say “hello,” only to be met with a grumpy unsmiling
response. Suddenly, your mood has changed. Or you went to work and your
co-worker started in on all the unpleasant changes taking place. Did that
cause a change in your outlook or attitude about your job? Did your joy
disappear?
So just how do we stay positive and joyful in a negative
world? How do we keep from being the grumpy person, ourselves, taking someone
else’s joy away?
First, we need to figure out what has created our
grumpiness. Maybe, it is not being satisfied with what we have. We have not
learned to be content. Maybe it is unforgiveness, financial problems, sickness,
injury, or death of a loved one. The list could go on and on.
Regardless of the reason, we all have choices on how we
handle life’s events.
Number one, I do not have to have a bad day just
because someone else chooses to have one. I can be there for a friend, to
listen and help, but as an on-going drama I do not have to get involved.
Next, life is too short to let unforgiveness rob me of
my joy. We have to realize that to harbor ill-will against someone else only
hurts us. I firmly believe that unforgiveness prevents the Holy Spirit from
working in our lives to give us complete joy. What is the loss of pride to make
amends compared to the gain of a joyful heart?
If the problem is financial, maybe we can manage to
change our outlook on the way we choose to spend money and be willing to take
some conservative measures.
If the problem is changes at work, and those changes
are out of our control, maybe it is time to be thankful we have a job, that is,
if we truly enjoy the place where we work. If it is a job that we wake up
every single morning and dread, it might be time to look for one that can
provide a more rewarding experience. Again, life is too short not to enjoy what
we do on a daily basis.
Whatever the reason, I have to go back to “choices.” We
have to choose to be joyful. We have to want to be cheerful. We have to want
to wear a smile. We have to want to be friendly toward others. We should grasp
every moment and strive to be positive and happy.
When it comes right down to it, to stay positive in a
negative world means we have to count our blessings. We will all have sorrow
and trouble, but I believe how we choose to handle it will determine our joy. Proverbs
14:13 says, “
Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of
that mirth is heaviness.” What keeps the laughter in my heart is faith
and belief in God’s Word and His promises. Hebrews 13:5 gives us words to live
by and a promise,
“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be
content with such things as ye have; for he hath said, I will never leave thee,
nor forsake thee.”
In my weak moments and times of trials, I strive
to remember Isaiah 40:31
, “They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their
strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be
weary, and they shall walk, and not be faint.”
Knowing God is always with me gives me hope and joy!
“…Be of good courage.” Strive to
smile and laugh more.
“A
merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance.”